How Can You Tell If A Pedophile Is Targeting Your Child?
Posted October 16, 2007 12:00 pm.
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With the world on a hunt for a suspected pedophile, parents can’t be blamed if they hold their kids just a little bit tighter and reiterate all the rules they need to know about going out on the Internet and not talking to strangers in the virtual or non-virtual world. But kids are secretive and sometimes afraid to tell their parents the truth about what’s going on.
So how can you tell if your child may have been approached by a predator – or worse? Here are some signs of behaviour to watch for that could indicate a problem with your youngster.
-Look for changes in behaviour, including mood swings, unexplained fear, withdrawal and excessive crying, aggression or reverting to more babyish antics.
-Watch for inappropriate sexual activity or a sudden interest in sex where none existed before.
-New habits emerge like bedwetting or problems sleeping.
-If problems at school suddenly appear out of nowhere, inquire about the source.
-Be wary if your child suddenly expresses fear of going to certain places or meeting certain people that he or she never expressed before.
-Look for telltale signs on their body, including unexplained bruises or sores or other marks that have appeared without warning or any apparent cause.
-Remember to tell your child they can always confide in you about anything. When they do, be supportive and always tell them you believe them.
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